Monday, June 25, 2007

Sex Talk & Strangely Erotic Dreams

I must have hit the summertime doldrums when it comes to updating my blog. I have been hard put to find any inspiration lately. Nothing sounds remotely interesting to blog about and I have been really working on the Weight Watchers thing and haven't been keeping up with other blogs either.

I would like to apologize to the people that come and read my blog that I haven't been reciprocating lately. I haven't been at my computer much at home and have been actually working. Crazy huh?

Yesterday I was over at my friend Rico's house for Sunday dinner and we started talking about sex. Always a fun topic to discuss. We were talking about everything from G-spots to spanking and asphyxiation during the act. Then we were talking about what it was like to have sex after having a child. I told them that after I had Devon that it felt like everything had "shifted a bit" and that it was physically painful to have intercourse. It probably didn't help that Devon's dad is well endowed either.

After the entire conversation that we had last night I had the strangest dreams. I dreamt that Devon's dad had separated from his wife and came over a few times and was trying to have sex with me. I remember one part vividly where I was in the walk in closet getting something and he grabbed me and pushed me against the wall and started kissing me. I also remember kissing him back.

For all of the negative things that I can say about Devon's dad, I can't say that he was bad in bed. He was really, really good. Well, it was until after I had Devon and it hurt to have sex. Then it went downhill fast. We would fight about having sex and I just don't think that he really understood.

I woke up this morning thinking how strange it was to have erotic dreams about someone that I can't seem to get along with anymore. I know that most of the reason that I can't get along with Devon's dad anymore is due to his wife, but it was still a strangely unsettling dream.

10 comments:

Churlita said...

I hate having erotic dreams about someone I don't even really like.

Too bad you can't control what you dream.

reformattingmybrain said...

I don't know what it is with being pregnant, but I swear I dream about having sex 3-4 times a week. It's all been with my husband though - PHEW! No past people have been popping up in those dreams.

Moonbeam said...

I love waking up with warm fuzzy feelings after having naughty dreams being with the man I love....the best most wonderful man in the Universe.

The Diva's Thoughts said...

That is quite odd. I wonder what that dream meant. Hmmmmm......

mielikki said...

I've had a few dreams about my ex husband, with and without "the act". I attribute it to the fact that I did love him very much, once upon a time, and a small piece of me always will. I always feel off kilter when I wake up from it, though. . .

Anonymous said...

Why does everyone want to see my Unit???????

evil-e said...

This word, sex (sp?) what is it?

Seriously, right....I could not stand one of my exes because she lied to me one too many times. We broke up due to some habits she had and the related lack of money. We also broke up because she could not keep her awful past out of the present (this will have to be a post someday), but, she was easily the most "talented" girl on the planet. After we broke up, we stayed "friends" because we could not rid each other of the thoughts of sex. Dangerous topic!

Babybull40 said...

Its part of our nature to dream these types of dreams.. It is normal even if it's about an Ex.. I have had many dreams about my Ex's.. I wouldn't worry about.. As far as after having kids.. yes I can agree.. everything shifts.. it seems...

egan said...

Dreams have a weird way of including people you may not ever think about or consider in certain fashions.

Um, the painful sex thing after having a child... hmmm, I hope that's not terribly common amongst women. No offense to you or anything, of course.

Hey, it's summer and you're supposed to be outside. Don't feel bad for one bit about not making the rounds as often. Enjoy life!

Poppy said...

Way to give away our secrets, Rach! Just kidding. I'm sure I've had dreams about ex's, but last night I deamt about tornados - again. It's my new, recurring dream. At least people aren't trying to kill me as much any more, I just hide from tornados...